The Importance Of Expression And Emotion, Emotion And Fear

Importance of genogram combining touch, attachment, emotion and fear The use of focused genograms can aid therapists by highlighting the psychological bonds that confine an individual or couple. By highlighting the bonds, they can be explored through a conceptual framework such as; an attachment lens or and emotional lens, to determine the impact on the system and individual. The genogram reflects the family of origin and can illuminate a pattern of connectivity (Magnuson Shaw, 2003). While this exploration is beneficial, a deeper knowledge or clarification can be obtained if several focused genograms are combined to create the roadmap for the individual. A genogram combining the touch and bonding level of attachment theory genogram†¦show more content†¦Intimacy can be explored with an intimacy genogram to help show the family constellations that show a pattern (Sherman, 1993). A deterrent to intimacy in a relationship is fear, at many levels, such as fear of loss of powe r and fear of loss of self (Sherman, 1993). Fear can manifest from previous life experiences such as abuse or assault or it can be a manifestation of family-of origin influences. This fear can be manifested as individuals that do not have secure attachment styles and have difficulty expressing emotion through touch. By exploring the attachment styles of the couple a starting point can be identified. Attachment styles have been researched for thirty years beginning with Bowlby (1977) so extensive theory is available to begin the conceptualization of the case. Once the attachment is identified, then touch and bonding can be explored to further develop the picture of the couples functioning. The questions can expand both members of the couple’s tactile expression and if there is any overlap. Lastly, the emotional questions are explored to determine the emotional intelligence of the individuals and their willingness to express themselves. By addressing fear within the couple , the therapist can evaluate the level of anxiety and trauma that is involved. In highlighting the intergenerational patterns, the therapist removed the blame of the problem away from the lower tactile